When will P and me talk again?

[lucina]

Pretty straightforward question. 

this chart sucks of course, but what I found interesting is that the ruler of 7th house has an applying sextile to the ruler of 1st house, and the orb is 1 degree. 
I found that interesting, as the next concert is approximately in one month. 
So if we do not talk tomorrow or in one week that potentially next month. LOL 

But then again there is a pretty unhappy MOon there. 


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[sven555]

Moon in 12th house, unhappy perhaps thinking of dreams and wishes, but feel unable to act.

Scorpio/Taurus ASC/DSC, Mars and Venus. Venus is the active planet, makes a kind sextile within 0'56' approximately. So that shows 'P' being the active person. 'P' is also in a strong house and sign. Mars (you) in a strong house, weak sign.

Due to the nature of your question, and that fact that you are both in fixed houses, just less than one month seems accurate. So you talk once more soon.

But when you say talk, do you mean texting, phoning, or meeting up together?

[lucina]

sven555


"Moon in 12th house, unhappy perhaps thinking of dreams and wishes, but feel unable to act."
Yes, could be.



" Venus is the active planet, makes a kind sextile within 0'56' approximately. So that shows 'P' being the active person. 'P' is also in a strong house and sign. Mars (you) in a strong house, weak sign. "
Yes, agreed. interestingly there is a mutual reception between Moon and Mars, and there is also strong dignity as Moon is exalted in Taurus, where Venus is. Interesting. NOt sure that means anything at all, just noticed it. Mars in Cancer is a curious placement. It is in fall of course, but at the same time also dignified by triplicity and term (of course these are weaker dignities, but still interesting).


"Due to the nature of your question, and that fact that you are both in fixed houses, just less than one month seems accurate. So you talk once more soon."
I`ll let you know when and if it happens.



"But when you say talk, do you mean texting, phoning, or meeting up together? "
Most probably texting or even just over fb. Don`t think we are going to meet up before next month. On the other hand funny enough I`ve seen him and talked to him more often this year than with my best friend. lol

[sven555]

Congrats lucina, you are now one of Hermes' Agents! haha 100 posts.

Ok, so this is good to hear I get the feeling from the chart that there is something yet to come; it isn't case closed yet.

Would you say P is more active in your relations, or are you more active than he is?

[lucina]

Hmm, not sure how to answer that. I mean considering the fact that basically he is a performer and I should be clearly more active, he`s been doing a great deal being active himself, too. Despite this being rather unusual as the superficial category of that connection would be performer-audience I guess, lines have gotten a bit blurry. I`d say it is pretty balanced, but then again, he`s been surprising me quite a few times, be it that after a short nightly fun exchange we have and me ordering something (not that big), he was adding a lot of little extras to my order, and when asking him about the reason for that, he was all but at a loss for word, only mumbling something about "if you order something at all..." and well we`ve had this little tug of war, about me refusing to take his autograph, and on that occasion he managed to sneak an autograph and a little personal note into the package. LOL 

Or on last concert he was hurrying backstage, coming back and handing me back my caketin from stage. LOL
I had completely forgotten about it, and was amazed he remembered that it was mine.


Well as I said it is technically a performer-audience  - connection, but then again because of our meeting during two workshops, a very weird fan-meeting, that was simply just him ordering some tables in a restauruant spending time with a handful of people and had more the feel of a casual get-together with - well how does he call us? "fanfriends". lol not even he feels comfortable with the fan-category.

And then of course ever since he started doing those podcasts with his friend, and I admittedly like them quite much and tend to have one or the other thing to say, so this sort of evolved sneakingly into some kind of continuous flow of conversation, casual of course. But still, if I compare our interaction of let`s say 3 years ago to how we interact now, I am surprised how much it changed. And it did not change because of me, at least not solely.


So well, actually I should be the more active one, but it doesn`t feel like it to be honest. Though I guess by now it is balanced?

[sven555]

Wow, this sounds very unique indeed.

Maybe he does feel something with you. That sounds like he has taken a liking to you over the 3 years.

I haven't look at his chart in detail before (I think you have posted it somewhere), so perhaps his chart would explain this gestures of good will.

[lucina]

Yes, it`s pretty unique, I´ve given up trying to find a name or category for it. It is what it is and constantly flowing and changing anyway. lol

The only thing I can really say for now is, that yes I get the feeling we have some kind of liking for each other, as crazy that may sound (and if I had not been that defensive before, this should have been evident even before, to be honest the last 3 years when it changed, seems to have more to do with ME open up. I mean he`s been trying before, but I`ve just been too stubborn and refuse to even entertain the thought that he could like me even a little bit. Well in particular in the last few months it just becmae to obvious to ignore anymore, not even for someone as stubborn as me. lol )

But then again why wouldn`t he like me? I am pretty cool and unique myself, not to mention, MODEST!

[sven555]

Yeah, why should he not like you?? That is more like it

It is weird how someone people come into our lives, no matter how short or long; and can affect us like none before.

Perhaps he is doing that to you, his task is to unlock your resistance.

[lucina]

I don`t know if you are interested to see it, but this is our synastry, and yes his birthtime is right. actually when we met many many many years ago (and I hope and pray he does not remember that. lol), that was one of the first things we were talking about, me asking him about his birthtime, and yes talking about astrology. And he just completely flabbergasted me when he took out his mobile, called his parents just an hour to midnight or so, and was asking when he was being born. LOL


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I remember I just found it intriguing to see how different someone with a Sun-Moon-conjunction is acting as compared to me with the Sun-Mercury-conjunction natally, and here they are even at the same location in the zodiac. (the difference is he is more listening to spontaneous impulses most of the time, while I try to process everything through some form of analyzing.
I found the first time we met, that he hopefully forgot because after that I stayed far away for 2 years or so, and did not intend to ever cross his path again. lol, there was this little interaction, that really summarized the astrological difference there.

While he was sniffing at my hair (he thought he had smelled a certain fragrance, and did not believe me when I said I did not have that on me) - Sun conjunct Moon-, I was trying to have a conversation with him and convince him through speaking to him (and feeling rather out of my comfort zone, as I honestly never had a man before or after that first meeting sniff at my hair, within 10 minutes of meeting. lol) - Sun conjunct Mercury.


Ah yes it`s always been fun crossing paths with him. He`s just crazy.

[sven555]

He has Sun and Moon on MC too! Maybe that explains the performer and the way he treats people !

Both Sun conjunction Sun is always a instantaneous unity, you get fastracked with that aspect, no wonder he was smelling your hair and calling his mum for birth time very quickly haha. Nice smell?

I guess with Sag it is honest. Opposing jupiters, maybe different philosophies

[lucina]

Jun 6, 2017 21:18:32 GMT sven555 said:

Nice smell?


Haha, I did not ask him. But I guess it must have been okay. 


And yes, I blame the Suns too. Jupiter-Jupiter is interesting. We actually share a lot of  philosophy and opinions, but I am sure there are areas we vehemently disagree with each other. It is interesting as those Jupiters disposit the Suns, and I can see that, how he is more earthy, more grounded and physical somehow, while I do tend to have my head in the clouds at times. lol

[astrorushi]

It may take 1 or 2 months and if you try once you both will speak but not sure its depend on the situation.

[lucina]

As for feedback.

We met in person a bit more than one month after that. As for him being more active, well I actually did speak first, but that was after he was passing me by like the 4th time within 10 minutes and just looking at me like he was expecting some kind of action on my behalf. lol
In those days in july he has had the habit of sneaking up on me and lingering around me anyway. (Well not the first time in those years we`ve "known" each other, actually he`s had this habit occasionally or even frequently from the moment we met. I am usually just a little ignorant. lol)

[sven555]

lucina

Good job on remembering to come back here and answer

It is a shame that the images have now expired because I can't remember the chart placements.

[lucina]

me neither. lol