anela
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Post by anela on Dec 2, 2017 6:21:47 GMT
The guy I was obsessed with, and now loathe. I rarely feel that strongly about anyone, either way. Composite first. The composite Eros was conjunct my Moon, Venus, SN, and Vertex - closest to Vertex. Venus was conjunct my Aries grouping. Mars was conjunct his Sun/Moon. His natal: Synastry: I haven't checked his chart in years. I still want to call him up just to swear at him.
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anela
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Post by anela on Dec 2, 2017 6:29:07 GMT
My natal:
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Post by sven555 on Dec 2, 2017 7:55:37 GMT
Hi anela, That Composite chart looks intense, the obvious focus of the 8th house signifies a tight intimate connection. In additional to this, Pluto sits in your 1st house of the composite chart. I heard that Pluto makes you become the closest of allies or the worst of enemies, where you just flat out hate each other and then even refuse to co-operate/build your relationship back. Does he feel this way towards you? Synastry is good. Both of your angles connect, his Sun/Moon sits on your DSC. His Mars/Saturn is in your 8th house, maybe another reason for your feelings towards him. There is signs of good, Mercuries together; His pluto trine your Moon/Venus and your Mars trine his Mars/Saturn. Perhaps the intensity of your composite chart caused your feelings now. Hope this helps you
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Post by pufferfishy on Dec 2, 2017 14:35:35 GMT
I agree, the first thing that struck me was that your angles are conjunct, *and* his Sun/Moon on your Dsc. That's powerful stuff. Composite Uranus opposing that stellium - no wonder the relationship was so electric and suddenly did a complete 180. I wouldn't be surprised if it does another big, sudden flip in the future.
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Post by StarVega on Dec 2, 2017 16:42:30 GMT
Same here, the ASC-IC angle conjunction caught my eye. While angle conjunctions can be great for "hitting it off" with someone, I'm very familiar with another case of this, where his ASC in Capricorn is conjunct her IC, and there is continual trouble, because he projects the stony side of Capricorn ("I have no feelings"), while she craves the IC, familial version of Capricorn (loyalty, sensuality, security). There is continual frustration about not being able to connect with qualities that she knows he has, but refuses to express.
Anyway, I think the major reason for deep feelings is, your moon-Venus sits on the midpoint of his Mars-Saturn and sun-moon. That's a highly focused energy directed in your sensitive spot. To pick and choose, though:
Your moon conjunct his sun-Saturn midpoint -> could elicit resentment, ie "stop caging me in" Your moon conjunct his moon-Mars midpoint -> you are too open to his angsty energy, possibly hypersensitive to any anger cues
It seems that he's designed to deal with early Gemini energy in a crushing, sucking-the-marrow-out kind of way, and your moon-Venus may have felt totally acknowledged and pleasantly consumed at first ("he loves All of Me") but his appetite went too far, possibly began making excessive demands, and wasn't really paying enough attention to what you brought to the table, as yourself.
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